Quote Originally Posted by Chiruru53 View Post
90% of the time I feel bad about it and then I get the normal "HMM" and "wtf"s which in turn makes me even more stressed out, causing more mistakes (I suffer from anxiety)
Have you healed in other trinity-based MMOs? I get the impression you're a little green, which is completely cool if you are. If someone dies from things that are their own fault, let them know what it is. Tell them to check the battle log. If that's not enough, laugh at them for being terrible. Bad players that refuse to take responsibility are a dime a dozen, they really are. You'll run into them over and over. Seriously, don't let that screw with you.

The game also becomes way more fun when you take it out of duty finder and into FC/LS land.