Attention Tanks and DPS: It's not always the healers fault!

[Bahram]

This is the golden rule:

If the tank dies, it's the healer's fault.
If the healer dies, it's the tank's fault.
If the dps dies, it's his own damn fault.

I never really liked this little mantra for new players. Don't get me wrong, I know it'll teach new players basic trinity rules. It works when you have a stock mob with no abilities and an aggro meter, but the moment you start adding in mechanics it's more complex than that. "Why we wiped" takes more investigation than asking, "Who died?" Maybe it's an unfounded fear, but I think that some people get the wrong idea and go in with that shit like it's gospel.

For what it's worth, I'm a reformed healer playing as a tank.