FATE contribution Points, a question

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Hi everyone. I'm curious on how FATE contribution points work and whether they might need a little adjusting.

Scenario If TL;DR Skip to my questions at the bottom. Scenario adds substance. for those who don;t know Gorgimera is a 40 something 30 minute big boss fight.
Myself and my partner enter a Gorgimera fight (still haven't managed to win one yet ) as Melee is a little tough He switches to his Legacy poorly equipped Archer (so he can res me) instead of his well equipped monk. I'm playing a summoner and there are no tanks around so in goes Titan Egi. - We are there for the entire fight and both level 50.

I tank literally 90% of the fight with all of my attention concentrated on keeping Titan alive. Every time he dies Gorgimera ends up running all over the shop killing everyone and twice now in separate fights someone has run him out of FATE range and he's reset

I throw out a dot now and then but with my very limited healing ability as a summoner all time and Mana is spent on keeping my little tank alive.

My partner runs around shooting things. And pulling hate off of me from adds.

FATE ends we lose again My partner gets gold and I get silver. This has happened every time I have fought him. I can't get gold. even though I was participating for the full 28 minutes before it despawns

When, after working so hard, I finally beat that FATE and I get silver and no pet.. I'm going to be devastated.

My Questions
So does healing your pet not count despite the fact that hes the one tanking?

Or does your healing contribution not count for much if you're playing a DPS role despite the fact that you are doing 12 times as much healing as anyone else?