First people complain that the server needs to be able to handle the extra load, now that there's extra load people are complaining that there are too many people playing... Just have fun and enjoy the game, take it from someone who was into Rift at it's launch; this isn't unusual. You're part of the first wave of players so you're gonna run into many many many people chewing their way through fates and it looks like a storm now but it'll smooth itself out.