Tanking makes me mad paranoid, I tend to only want to play with people I know because if and when I screw up they won't get all up in my grill about it. So far my tanking hasn't been terrible, but I'm not scared of running into these types of groups who will make my already massive insecurities about tanking even worse because of their impatience and unwillingness to let people learn how to play the game. Thankfully to them I say, goodbye and enjoy your queue. I have enough friends to keep me going and having actual fun while you sit around waiting to play.