I haven't read through every single response but I'm assuming somewhere along the 30 pages of posts it devolved into a complete mess so making another argument won't mean much now.

Instead, I'm just going to call on the devs to publish a clear guideline on what players should do when they encounter situations described in the OP's post. The forums are currently flooded with posts about "questionable" behaviors during ID runs when matched with strangers through DF. Whether the behavior in question involves immature language or players who like to dictate how others should play their game, it's prevalent enough that we need an official response and an effective tool to deal with it.

I personally couldn't care less for abusive players and whatever they say or do means nothing to me. But I would not want to wake up one day to hear on the news that yet another teenager had killed him/herself, this time because of something that happened in an online game called Final Fantasy XIV.