Honestly when people act like that, just laugh and tell them how delicious their tears are. Sure they will rage harder, but it just increases the comedic value of it all. I don't like what they do, I don't agree with it and a kick/report option would be welcome...But the fact of the matter is that it won't make it stop, I've been playing online games for many years and every single game has this issue.

That said all of my DF experiences thus far have been really good in terms of personality and for that I am thankful, though I'm sure my asshole group is just a click away.