This is probably the most frustrating thing about this game, the ps3 targeting is crap. In a party it's ok I just have to aquwardly press up and down to select members but if I'm not in a party and in a fate trying to heal someone I cannot target them, the game will target Npcs, monsters, summons, minion, anything interactive in the terrain, me but it will NEVER target other players. So if your looking for a heal during a fate don't ask ps3 players.