I have to agree with the OP.

as for all the people saying that they "dont have time" playing with people, thats complete nonsense on at least two accounts.

1. I see people playing this game all day. And most of these people are ones that i actually recognize as whiners of not having time.

2. Its not even because of time, it has to do with laziness. People hate people much more now over the past 7 years, people have developed a natural and unspoken resentment toward one another. I blame all the accessive accessability. Since no one needs anyone, theres no need fir anyone.