I actually do all these already, but I thought I would say my biggest issue is, I remapped my controller buttons so triangle is menu, again nostalgia and ease of use for me and moved map to start. However biggest problem with that is now every time I go and change my targeting to l1 triangle, it changes my targeting but also takes a screenshot at the same time lol.

Also I found the biggest help when targeting when people complain about controller targeting is I always tend to have targeting on enemies, that way left and right will target enemies, up and down on the d pad targets allies and facing a chest or NPC you need to talk to for a quest and pressing x does the action.