I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one new to MMOs in general. A lot of terms, abbreviations, and tips for best use of macros mentioned in the new player area goes right over my head. So, in the interest of creating better players to help you experienced players, what easy-to-understand, lingo-free advice do you have for us? Links to pre-existing advice threads welcome!

In my case, I haven't even attempted any group events because I am still figuring out the controls for this game and am afraid of getting cussed out because I don't really know what to do yet. (That would just ruin the fun of the game for me and the newb hate that spews from some players on gaming forums has kept me from trying mmos before.) Also, I'm used to having a print manual at hand and the lack of one is leaving me confused over what to do with the hot bars, how to access actions, etc.