I don't honestly care if you don't play 4+ hours a day. I and others that think like me aren't going to be okay with cross-server groups just because some people don't play a bunch. I've seen what cross-server grouping does first hand and while it does allow people to get groups a little faster it causes way too many issues because people are much more likely to be jackasses, suck at their jobs, and it DOES in fact ruin parts of the social aspect in the game, something I assume you're not worried about since you don't play very much.

And stop with the "I can't play because I work and have a gf" crap, I go to school, work, have a wife and 2 step-kids and I'm not going to sit here and demand a cross-server grouping system because I know what it will do to the game.