Thanks for the help everyone, much appreciated. It has just got me on a downer (as I have been playing drg since ps3 release and my dps is great on other fights, t5 pre-nerf and levi ex for example) that I am struggling on this fight..oh what's that raf..you have spun around just as I want to land ID? Oh right okay.
My static is going to tonight try out the tactic where the person with floral trap doesn't go in the*briar so we have more dps uptime. It does seem to be who gets it most fights.. just like TT always wanted me underneath her