Little help

[bonez]

me and my wife both play and when we can get on it ran well. the past couple days thought when we do a instance or fate we will either lock up or one of us will be like 1 or 2 min behind whats on the others screen. i have 40 mb internet witch should be plenty to handle just two players. we have tried playing on the desktop. one playing on wifi the other with a cable connection. also the person who is behind has no fight animation going on then the whole fight happens in a 1/3 of the time. im sure its lag but i want to know if i should contact my isp or if its just server overload or capacity. all three of or comps scored very high and i dont try to run on max settings. we also dont dl while playing.

[dragonscape2]

sorry missed the part (past couple days) just ignore what i said

[bonez]

then why did it just start happening in the past two days?