I want to play just as badly as any of you, but even rolling restarts will likely crash the lobby server and allow even fewer people to play. Hence why they're not being done, and the sticky stresses how carefully they will be handling the restarts on Wednesday. Any band-aid fixes like afk timers will just take time and resources away from implementing a real solution. I don't like it either, but there are really only two options here: wait, or cancel your pre-order and play something else. How patiently or impatiently you choose to do the former is entirely your own prerogative.