It's taken me 10 mins max to get on every time. Also please actually read what square has posted they have clearly said they will be limiting log ins until tegu upgrade and add servers on wed. They have told you their plan, so posts like these do nothing. If logging in is too frustrating I suggest taking a break from this game for a while until the issues have resolved. FF14 isnt critical infrastructure such as electricity and they don't need to shut everything down and fix it today or people die. It's a video game and they are already working on issues and they are currently doing quality assurance tests on the solutions, which I rather them do then push something out that might make things worse.

Tl;dr patience is a virtue