Here is the most logical solution:

Free realm/server transfers for anyone on an already heavily congested realm to one of the newly created realm/servers.

This is the most logical and ethical solution considering the problem was created due to poor resource allocation and management by SE.

This would allow you and your friends to regroup if both of you are on heavily congested realms. I am in a similar boat as you and would like for SE to at least do this honorable request. I could care less about free play. Free play time is temporary; being able to play with friends and family is permanent.

Thank you for your consideration.