I agree it is hard at times when the healers keep us TOO healthy. But lets work with it and I try to give a little direction to the group when i start, not to tell others how to play but i suggest a few guidelines. Never hurts to communicate. That way everyone may have some good hints. It is hard to keep the attention of many of the enemies of this game, and that is by design I am sure to make us work harder, some run around and are hard to target, some just refuse to stay made at me,..but careful work can help a lot. Thanks again for the input by eveyone and do remember to explain slang terms that new players may not understand, we are not all veteran MMO players of this type and this is a great chance to help others learn.