This question is mostly directed at tanks.
It was easy in FFXI, mostly just stand back with the other casters because it was easy for the tank to voke or flash over distances, and easy for the bard to hit all casters with mage's ballad.
I'm only level 34 whm at the moment and have yet to do a dungeon with a bard or any higher level content.
Do whm's in ffxiv still stand back with the blm's and arn's? Or is it easier for the tank to grab hate back if the whm is closer to them? Do whm's get any enmity reducing armor at some point? Basically, where do the tanks/bards prefer the healers stand?