They do control the exp to a point but in what way? Do SE allow you to gain enough exp compared to other games? Also, in these games you can quest for days on end without the feeling of restriction but FFXIV makes you feel that you stop after your leves are done.

The game needs to be fun, right now it isn't fun and it shows in the lack of players. Exp'ing is the core of any MMO and it fails right now. I really hope SE realise this..