Quote Originally Posted by gifthorse View Post
And be a burden to my party at the same time because I can't see which mobs have red names or which players are in my party?

That's not an option if it's forcing me to keep /names on.
I'm sure with the clutter of all the mob names and party member names around you, one more blemish isn't going to hurt you. The other guy has a point, they open up a feedback forum here and everyone wants their ideal game all of a sudden. If you want the perfect game catered to you specifically I suggest getting into game design - I did at one point in my life and it was a lot of fun.