I'm taking my time, I'll get there in a month or so.

But, OP, what you're saying is just cause a bunch of people like to rush and are doing endgame stuff within a week, I should have to be forced to go through an extremely long grind to get there myself? Just cause people rush doesn't mean the game needs to be adjusted for them. All it does is hurt the majority who take their time. If people are doing their relic quests already, you should just chill. Play the game how you want and don't get so overly concerned with how others are playing.