New player here, just got to 50, beat story, doing instances and dungeons.

So I enter a hard mode ifrit fight, which is easy, but the other healer kept healing with cleric stance and only used cure once in awhile and would stop it if he thought i was healing the person he was, while I did the heavy work.

Now that's not the problem. We had several wipes, I grew tired, there was nobody with aoe limit break for the nails so I said I'm tired and going to go.

<f**king moron, you need a nap>
<wow, pathetic>
<why'd you even join if you're tired dumb***>

You get the idea, I was totally caught off guard. This wasn't the only case but this made me feel really sad. I found a legacy player who kept telling me healing was so easy, and that I shouldn't be saying my job is hard, and I'm new? My job isn't hard, but you have to be pretty quick reacting to emergencies and swiftly activate moves and cross class actions.

I just can't see myself wanting to do duty finder anymore even though I've had good experiences.