I played wow for almost 8 years so I've seen this happen to people alot. But so far my experience in this game have usually (luckily) all been with XI and V1.0 players and they have always went out of their way to help. Not sure what the difference between them and other mmo gamers are but its been awesome so far.

(not trying to generalize all mmo players as being difficult to get along with, just pointing out my experience with the FF vets)