Quote Originally Posted by GalaxyGirl View Post
So I enter a hard mode ifrit fight, which is easy, but the other healer kept healing with cleric stance and only used cure once in awhile and would stop it if he thought i was healing the person he was, while I did the heavy work.

Now that's not the problem. We had several wipes, I grew tired, there was nobody with aoe limit break for the nails so I said I'm tired and going to go.

I just can't see myself wanting to do duty finder anymore even though I've had good experiences.
While the swearing wasn't required, joining a HM Ifrit then leaving after a "couple of attempts" is a jerk move. I don't consider you any less bad than them.

The DPS in that group probably queued for almost an hour, only to have one of the healers leave within a few attempts. That makes you worthy of scorn. This is not a single player game, your actions have effects on other players.