so hard mode ifrit is easy... but you wiped all the fights...

anyhow... sorry to hear you got a nasty group ( this only applies if, this answers were note provoked. since the info given is incomplete and very bias).

just blacklist them and look for a nicer group of people. i have been playing this since beta of 1.0 and has yet to have blacklisted someone, maybe im to nice and everyone loves me or i have good good luck