Leveling other classes.

[Yoko_Kurama]

I bet a lot of people will read what you wrote and not get what you mean but I think you are thinking about areas where it is beneficial and obvious for people to group and party together...unfortunately that will only be dungeons unless you purposely go out of your way to always party with your husband for every little thing. The way they built this game with solo questing and occasional duty finder dungeons kind of deters the vast majority of people from really consistently partying. They tried to find a balance where anti social people can still get through the story (which i feel is a mistake in an mmo to begin with) and thus the system ends up feeling like "Well i could go party with someone for that quest but i can also solo it just as easily so meh.."

Now since you are 17 and based off what you said I imagine you haven't done Satsasha dungeon yet, that will be your first dungeon where you get to party with other players and feel that mmo experience, but overall there is no "common ground" where everyone will always be in parties and groups because to be honest...it just isn't necessary to progress.

**edit** Also to the first question what means do you level secondary classes, it is just as you presumed, grind fates, find the side quests, do the leves...but yeah no common ground where party play becomes a "Necessity".