Ok so I have discovered something that seems to assure me it is not a connection issue.

This is happening so often when I login, I can already tell when it is going to kick me off. So right when everyone seemed to stop moving but me and either the Send / Receive drop to 0 I hit ALT-Tab to get back on the forums. During this time I forgot it was still running in the background and amazingly it didn't drop me.

So when I started playing again, it is as if it connected briefly allowed me to move some what, but I could already tell it was going to kick me off again so I tried ALT-TAB once more. Low and behold I am not getting kicked and apparently when I get back to the game for a brief moment it sends / receive traffic then starts it thing again.

That is the best way to describe it, though may if you all test it out you can see what I mean. For most of us that are already familiar with when its going to kick you, I would try it just to see if it keeps you connected.