Being able to be AFK forever and never get DC'd from the server is the main problem in my opinion. Personally, I would just try and wake up super early in the morning (about 5:45am MST was when I did this morning) and then log myself into the game when there isn't very many people online. Because SE failed to put an AFK logout timer in, my character can happly sit staring at a wall for the next 8-12 hours while I am busy going to work/college. Then when I get home and have time to play, my character is already logged into the game, so I don't have to worry about the high server load.