This is why Hardcore Content SUCKS.

[Belial]

I only had a few hours of time yesterday to budget for FFXIV. And all of it was burned on the Kokoroon NM. Granted, I missed out because it was a new NM, and that everybody was camping for it, but that doesn't make the stress, frustration, and aggravation go away.

I play FFXIV to have fun, not to compete with people who talk smack and heckle other parties camping the NM. That was just unnecessary stress...

There are 19 -other- NMs. There are other jobs you can rank, new side quests with story lore, crafting, gathering, etc. No one, forced you to endure any stress other than your own stubborn self.

What you have described is the general mentality of MMOs. This will not go away. Ever. So, either learn to cope with these kinda people, or don't play this kind of game. It is unavoidable.