I have been playing MMO's for about 10 years and never played a tank. Im still a lowbie but I have run the first 3 dungeons about a dozen times and have yet to have any member die as of yet, in fact it seems that the DoT, str boost and overpower make it pretty easy to hold hate at all times. The only thing in this game that has seemed a challenge as of now is the targeting system for ps3.. its fn brutal as a tank!!
The only thing I ever say in a group is "please attack my target" and most dps seems to listen.

If anyone can help with the targeting issue I would be very grateful! I cant seem to adjust it so while in battle when I use the pad to toggle targets it doesnt select my party members or their pets. I have tried so many different setups and im just not smart enough to figure it out.