I like being original, but I don't like pressure, So pure tanking and pure healing is not for me (I know this from a previous MMO, I was a healer on one character and a tank on another... I quit both characters. LOL).

I do like being IN the battle, not too far away like a mage or archer. If it helps I want to be smack-dabbed in the middle between Off-Tanking and Damage Dealing.

I don't like being killed in at least 3 hits... I want stable defense, but good enough accuracy that I won't miss often.

to being original I was thinking maybe a Conjurer/THM/Lancer or a Conjurer/THM/Gladiator?

Thoughts or suggestions?

Any suggestions, I'm up for Cross-Classing as well, just tell me what I should do.