I think a big issue with many players I see posting is this. They haven't immersed in 14 yet. I also had a few weeks of 11 thinking. Once I let go of wanting the game to be just like 11 I really starting understanding 14. Having 2 names instead of 1 is fairly easy to get used to. After playing the game since release I would not be happy if they suddenly changed my name now. Give it a shot. Having 2 names is not as bad as you think.