We're 3 friends who pre-ordered and started on same world together, which makes us lucky on that point atleast.
Still we don't get to play together though, cause by the time in the afternoon they are getting on, so are everybody else, and the servers are full, and the q-system isn't even on so we have an inkling about when we will get to game.
It really is frustrating...

Please SE, add more servers!