I've been finding this so frustrating too. Everyone I know is either on Moogle or trying to get onto Moogle yet it's been closed practically all early access. If they gave out free world transfers for the first month then maybe I'd be alright about it but Square aren't doing anything to encourage and help people play together. Guild Wars 2 launch had cross-server partying, overflows and free world transfers (iirc) at launch and that went pretty smoothly. I just don't understand why Square haven't researched all this.