Agreed. If they're going to fucking force us to not even have a login queue and wait hours just to be able to play, then they need to boot off the people who log in specifically to idle while they go to work and then come back to play.

And yes, there is ABSOLUTELY no idle auto-disconnect. I know this because I fell asleep in my chair on day 1 of early access, and woke up a few hours later still standing in front of the Aetheryte in Drybone.
There really is no reason for there to not be an auto-disconnect feature. Mind-boggling.