I totally agree with OP.
This game will fail again if this problem isn't fixed soon! The saying always is, Bad News always travels faster then good, people always would complain about something rather then say how good it is. The game is fantastic, yeah it could do with a few tweaks here and there I am sure, but these servers could be the death of ARR.

You can say all MMO's have these problems, and "welcome to MMO launch" but remember, Beta Test stages where designed to help sort these problems out, the final beta, was a stress test, where not only were they trying to max out server load, but also give people a taste of the game! They want to fix these issues FAST, they have a NDA in place during the EA, this is why, but the NDA will be void when servers open in just over a day and a half! All the hard work, will be ripped to shreds, within hours!