I did a level 40 faction leve recently with a random guy I didn't know but I had partied with earlier and he seemed kind of nice. Well....we do the leve and takes like 20 minutes and was quite painstaking and then a chest appears after last guy and a scarred kite shield drops which can turn into a vintage kite shield. Frustrating thing is....he got the shield: a conjurer who couldn't use it. I'm the 31 gladiator sitting there thoroughly dissapointed and he hasn't even spent a point doing gladiator. After 30 minutes of pleading to get the shield and how I would really appreciate it he proceeds to finally "yield" and ask for a lantern shield in exchange and i said ok. So i port him to limsa lominsa and i get the shield and try to trade...he does nothing...then he logs off. How does one deal with this sort of frustration? I just about tore my eyes out on this one