OK so just signed up and pre-ordered the PS3 CE from this site.

On the account page is an option to activate code. In addition on my confirmation email is the following text:
This Preorder has DLC associated with it:
FINAL FANTASY XIV EARLY ACCESS CODE - VISIT > PREORDER.EU.FINALFANTASYXIV.COM
Please check the Preorders page on your account for your activation code.

If you check the site listed it is not only early access but also the mog cap and cait sith minion. Hope this helps some of you as I still haven't seen listings anywhere else. Do note though once you activate the code you cannot cancel the pre-order.