I value our laughter and the challenge of content with others of differing personalities. I'm oft intimidated from parties where failure is seen negativly. There were many players who waved it off knowing a game and its world is to be enjoyed. To raise conflict would well deteriorate the experience for many unless they revel in misery.

Perhaps a community responsible and owing up to its faults is more able to employ benevolence. Projecting, in my case, is a ploy to buy time that I might longer deny my shortcomings.