i haz 2 philosophy in these regards, "everybody gets one" and "pay it forward" i got the cold shoulder all to often in XI, so when XIV came along and i was powerfull enough to do something about it, i did. and it would be gratifying enough that even days sometimes weeks later i get a random /tell from a player that knew the player that new a guy who knew someone i had helped and wanted to ask my advice, or needed directions, or what peice of gear dropped from what nm wich im all to happy to give. then i would know the circle was complete.