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[Kyri]

I was around on the FFXIAH forum days and that whole dramafest too haha, a lot of the vitriol was unnecessary but avoidable in some places too.

While I agree a lot of it was absolutely awful and no one deserves that level of bullying, I do think that it could have been handled on both sides a bit better. I am glad that it finally subsided though, as a victim of years of bullying myself I can relate pretty darn well to what she went through, that kind of thing does give you a lot of resolve if you can make it through it, but at the end you kinda realize that sometimes it's just better to keep your head down and shine amongst like minded people, because not everyone is going to share your opinion. (If they did, life would be boring!)

I hope my mini ramblings make sense?

tl;dr - Let's all hug it out.

I agree 100%! i was bullied all through school and its really how you shape yourself that matters And for the record you shine lots ^^ in the way you chose your wordings and posts, I have always enjoyed reading things by you + your pic is awesome<3

[Nix]

I agree 100%! i was bullied all through school and its really how you shape yourself that matters And for the record you shine lots ^^ in the way you chose your wordings and posts, I have always enjoyed reading things by you + your pic is awesome<3

/blushga!

Your pics are pretty awesome too!! X3

I have to admit, it took me a lot of time and self-reflection to learn how to handle myself in the way I do now. There was a lot of anger and rage but now after having moved past that my wish is that everyone else can too. Life isn't sunshine and roses but how we handle it and everything it throws at us is what makes the difference. Sometimes it's good to fight, other times it's good to just take the highroad and skedaddle.

Have a wonderful day everyone! X3

...totally sigging the shine line haha, sometimes even little Miss Optimism (me) needs a pick-me-up lol.


@Vilhem: I live in your sock draw. Feed me nao plz <3

[Vilhem]

/blushga!

Your pics are pretty awesome too!! X3

I have to admit, it took me a lot of time and self-reflection to learn how to handle myself in the way I do now. There was a lot of anger and rage but now after having moved past that my wish is that everyone else can too. Life isn't sunshine and roses but how we handle it and everything it throws at us is what makes the difference. Sometimes it's good to fight, other times it's good to just take the highroad and skedaddle.

Have a wonderful day everyone! X3


@Vilhem: I live in your sock draw. Feed me nao plz <3

I could not echo you with more pride o_o I was bullied a lot in school (physically and mentally ><), got told by several people I would amount to nothing etc. All of it caused me to withdraw from society as a whole so that I wouldn't get hurt anymore ._.;

Years later (late 20s) is when I finally started picking up the pieces of my life...still in the process and in my 30s e_e; But now I feel better about myself (I would have never dared to post pictures on here had this thread been created 4 yrs ago lol).

As for Babydoll's pics, I have no problem if women choose to be "bad girls" and take suggestive pictures of themselves. But like what Nixxy said, and what I said in a prior post, there's a time and place for them.

I checked my socks three times Nixxy...I cannot finds you T.T You lied to meh!!!

[Nix]

I could not echo you with more pride o_o I was bullied a lot in school (physically and mentally ><), got told by several people I would amount to nothing etc. All of it caused me to withdraw from society as a whole so that I wouldn't get hurt anymore ._.;

Years later (late 20s) is when I finally started picking up the pieces of my life...still in the process and in my 30s e_e; But now I feel better about myself (I would have never dared to post pictures on here had this thread been created 4 yrs ago lol).

As for Babydoll's pics, I have no problem if women choose to be "bad girls" and take suggestive pictures of themselves. But like what Nixxy said, and what I said in a prior post, there's a time and place for them.

I checked my socks three times Nixxy...I cannot finds you T.T You lied to meh!!!

Gawd I'm all teary-eyed now XD haha I am not without my issues now but I try my best for the sake of everyone around me, my husband is very understanding luckily and if I say "I have to get out of here (a crowded room or shop) like /now/" he is very gracious about the whole thing and is very supportive but thankfully that doesn't happen too often these days! lol

The power of words.. I wish more people understood the absolute destruction they can cause.

I'm totalleh in yer sock draw, sniffling at the back!! haha


Ronboooooooooo! I miss you dude!!

Edit: I totally sigged you too Vil XD I'm feeling very sentimental today haha. Not sure if it's hormones or just a generally warm fuzzy feeling. If it doesn't go away after chocolate, totally gonna call for a hug haha!

[Kyri]

/blushga!

Your pics are pretty awesome too!! X3

I have to admit, it took me a lot of time and self-reflection to learn how to handle myself in the way I do now. There was a lot of anger and rage but now after having moved past that my wish is that everyone else can too. Life isn't sunshine and roses but how we handle it and everything it throws at us is what makes the difference. Sometimes it's good to fight, other times it's good to just take the highroad and skedaddle.

Have a wonderful day everyone! X3

...totally sigging the shine line haha, sometimes even little Miss Optimism (me) needs a pick-me-up lol.


@Vilhem: I live in your sock draw. Feed me nao plz <3

You handled it better then me, im a antisocial hermit, a real life Codex from the guild lol. Aww your so sweet, im so flattered you would put that in your siggy<3<3<3 *super hugs* ^^