The devs are doin' it, let's join in^^

[Kyri]

I lost all my old Tifa cosplay pics when my laptop got into a fight with a kitchen chair but I managed to find this one on my old myspace.. forewarning, the ones I had were a lot better but this one is literally the only one I still have..


This was just before I dyed my hair.
(that chair in the backgrounds the one that took out my laptop T.T )





and this is me now ^-^





Babydoll keep rocking out with your bad-self! To those who have issues with women who aren't afraid to be themselves I say:




(P.s someone show me how to do that spoiler thing pls, I hate taking up half a page><)

[Nix]

Sniiip

I don't think people have a problem with Babydoll being herself, though people have been quick to jump to that conclusion, even going so far as to state that people were jumping on her for 'existing'.

I think the ruffled feathers came from a little too much skin being shown, while I'm not about to start forum nazi'ing I do think there's a time and place for everything, not everyone wants tits plastered across their screen.

Myself? I'm pretty meh on the entire subject, though I did censor my own pic just to be safe (bloody top didn't want to stay in position haha).

While it may be fine for people to post risque pics on places like twitter, deviantart and the like... it would be best to keep that kind of image to a minimum on these forums just so that there is no risk of negativity being thrown around. There's enough of that on these forums as it is.

Have a great day everyone~

If we were in raid together I'd complain that a FFXIV character in real life was playing FFXIV as a character. Inception for FFXIV >.> lol

XD!! Charception! (~@_@)~ My luck on drops would still probably remain the same. . . haha

[Kyri]

I don't think people have a problem with Babydoll being herself, though people have been quick to jump to that conclusion, even going so far as to state that people were jumping on her for 'existing'.

Most of what I was saying about babydoll actually spams a long time I wouldn't say we've really been friends or on the same servers but we post in a lot of the same places and played xi and xiv around the same times to see a lot of each others posts. In xi, she did get a lot of negative harassment including someone making a you tube video to pick on her. So I suppose I was saying it to let her know theres still some of the old homekeys rooting for her

[Nix]

Most of what I was saying about babydoll actually spams a long time I wouldn't say we've really been friends or on the same servers but we post in a lot of the same places and played xi and xiv around the same times to see a lot of each others posts. In xi, she did get a lot of negative harassment including someone making a you tube video to pick on her. So I suppose I was saying it to let her know theres still some of the old homekeys rooting for her

I was around on the FFXIAH forum days and that whole dramafest too haha, a lot of the vitriol was unnecessary but avoidable in some places too.

While I agree a lot of it was absolutely awful and no one deserves that level of bullying, I do think that it could have been handled on both sides a bit better. I am glad that it finally subsided though, as a victim of years of bullying myself I can relate pretty darn well to what she went through, that kind of thing does give you a lot of resolve if you can make it through it, but at the end you kinda realize that sometimes it's just better to keep your head down and shine amongst like minded people, because not everyone is going to share your opinion. (If they did, life would be boring!)

I hope my mini ramblings make sense?

tl;dr - Let's all hug it out.

[Kyri]

I was around on the FFXIAH forum days and that whole dramafest too haha, a lot of the vitriol was unnecessary but avoidable in some places too.

While I agree a lot of it was absolutely awful and no one deserves that level of bullying, I do think that it could have been handled on both sides a bit better. I am glad that it finally subsided though, as a victim of years of bullying myself I can relate pretty darn well to what she went through, that kind of thing does give you a lot of resolve if you can make it through it, but at the end you kinda realize that sometimes it's just better to keep your head down and shine amongst like minded people, because not everyone is going to share your opinion. (If they did, life would be boring!)

I hope my mini ramblings make sense?

tl;dr - Let's all hug it out.

I agree 100%! i was bullied all through school and its really how you shape yourself that matters And for the record you shine lots ^^ in the way you chose your wordings and posts, I have always enjoyed reading things by you + your pic is awesome<3

[Nix]

I agree 100%! i was bullied all through school and its really how you shape yourself that matters And for the record you shine lots ^^ in the way you chose your wordings and posts, I have always enjoyed reading things by you + your pic is awesome<3

/blushga!

Your pics are pretty awesome too!! X3

I have to admit, it took me a lot of time and self-reflection to learn how to handle myself in the way I do now. There was a lot of anger and rage but now after having moved past that my wish is that everyone else can too. Life isn't sunshine and roses but how we handle it and everything it throws at us is what makes the difference. Sometimes it's good to fight, other times it's good to just take the highroad and skedaddle.

Have a wonderful day everyone! X3

...totally sigging the shine line haha, sometimes even little Miss Optimism (me) needs a pick-me-up lol.


@Vilhem: I live in your sock draw. Feed me nao plz <3

[Vilhem]

/blushga!

Your pics are pretty awesome too!! X3

I have to admit, it took me a lot of time and self-reflection to learn how to handle myself in the way I do now. There was a lot of anger and rage but now after having moved past that my wish is that everyone else can too. Life isn't sunshine and roses but how we handle it and everything it throws at us is what makes the difference. Sometimes it's good to fight, other times it's good to just take the highroad and skedaddle.

Have a wonderful day everyone! X3


@Vilhem: I live in your sock draw. Feed me nao plz <3

I could not echo you with more pride o_o I was bullied a lot in school (physically and mentally ><), got told by several people I would amount to nothing etc. All of it caused me to withdraw from society as a whole so that I wouldn't get hurt anymore ._.;

Years later (late 20s) is when I finally started picking up the pieces of my life...still in the process and in my 30s e_e; But now I feel better about myself (I would have never dared to post pictures on here had this thread been created 4 yrs ago lol).

As for Babydoll's pics, I have no problem if women choose to be "bad girls" and take suggestive pictures of themselves. But like what Nixxy said, and what I said in a prior post, there's a time and place for them.

I checked my socks three times Nixxy...I cannot finds you T.T You lied to meh!!!

[Kyri]

/blushga!

Your pics are pretty awesome too!! X3

I have to admit, it took me a lot of time and self-reflection to learn how to handle myself in the way I do now. There was a lot of anger and rage but now after having moved past that my wish is that everyone else can too. Life isn't sunshine and roses but how we handle it and everything it throws at us is what makes the difference. Sometimes it's good to fight, other times it's good to just take the highroad and skedaddle.

Have a wonderful day everyone! X3

...totally sigging the shine line haha, sometimes even little Miss Optimism (me) needs a pick-me-up lol.


@Vilhem: I live in your sock draw. Feed me nao plz <3

You handled it better then me, im a antisocial hermit, a real life Codex from the guild lol. Aww your so sweet, im so flattered you would put that in your siggy<3<3<3 *super hugs* ^^

[Pwnagraphic]

I lost all my old Tifa cosplay pics when my laptop got into a fight with a kitchen chair but I managed to find this one on my old myspace.. forewarning, the ones I had were a lot better but this one is literally the only one I still have.. Yes I have boobs, no I wasn't showing them off to you>< (Iwas showing them off to Kaetara *wink wink*)



This one was just before I dyed my hair.



and this is me now ^-^





Babydoll keep rocking out with your bad-self! To those who have issues with women who aren't afraid to be themselves I say:




(P.s someone show me how to do that spoiler thing pls, I hate taking up half a page><)

My god.. Well hello there..

[Kyri]

*deletes post, but keeps the spot till I find my damn iphone cord x.x*