Having an elite mentality and being a kind/considerate player are not mutually exclusive though guys. I don't really see FFXIV having a massive problem with this since the majority of content seems to be readily available to all players. Heck, in 1.0 the only true battle meant for so-called elites was maybe hard Nael (even then, it's just a fight). There was never really too much of a divide between elite and lesserplayers.

In FFXI it was an obvious thing. Here? I don't think it really exists to such a terrible degree.