Quote Originally Posted by Denmo View Post
I played FFXI for 4 years. I was a WHM and EXP Partied every day, trying to be the best WHM I could.

Despite this, I can't recall any exp PUG I was in where people said, "Hey, you're a good WHM. Let's be friends and play together more often!"
In contrast, I met all of my In-game friends and got invited to all of my Linkshells from people acknowledging how good I was in a PUG.

Personally, I don't trust someone I've never partied with. I would not invite them to my Endgame Linkshell. I certainly would not put them in a situation where they could Ninja my Linkshells drops.

Only thing I can think of that is worse than inviting people you've never played with, is inviting people you've never played with after making them fill out an application...