I agree. Very good. However, I suppose any talk of values or knowing how to ask politely or be generous has no place then? The very concept of "Random Party = no rules, whoever gets it, gets it, end of story" seems to be a function of the issue of self-centered gameplay.

If I'm playing and I get a drop then Brwhahsdahhahahah it's mine and I get to keep it, screw everyone else! I personally disagree with such a attitude but, I'd rather not this digress into a debate about ethical treatment of other players.

I'll just say, things shouldn't be as they are.