<-- This guy's fears,
In my case personally the way we do things in the ls is kinda keep it super small and well...
We can't find people that will suit our LS easily cause everyones a shell hopper who has 78 shells to do stuff with and who wont be there when you need him, thus i dun like him to do stuff with me thus i dun have many players i play with. we a super small family. (also i'm a rude evil asshole that uses excuses when he screws up his job)
Now with that said i can't afford to lose a single person cause loosing one guy is a major step back.

We where like 20 people before server merged last time and we ended up with like 7 when servers came back up.
I just don't wanna relive that thing cause it was terrible...

That's just my personal thing and my view on this thing.
I aint worried about it all that much though. aslong as my core base of players (5 peoples) are back i'm good. Theres always more rude thugs who won't be all like "how dare you speak to me like that!" if u call them a fairy.. I will find them and recruit them in ARR I guess.