No offense here, but I really hope the developers don't get hung up on this sort of thing. It's like every piece of information that comes out of ARR results in the most nitpicking suggestions from some people in the community. To be frank this is so unimportant in the grand scheme of things and I really hope it's just the result of not having a public alpha or beta yet where people can start making meaningful suggestions to the developers.

What you need to understand is the developers do have limited resources. Expecting development attention for what is pretty much a personal request is just wasting their time. Pointing out a fatal flaw in the observed usability of the new character creator and trying to get development attention would be a good example of a topic to discuss. Taking the time to discuss adding a hairstyle that you want isn't.

I only bring this up because SE has shown a real desire to listen to the community as a whole so the amount of actual, important constructive criticism the community is able to give has the very real possibility of shaping the game for the better. But if you want to see how a community who is focused on personal satisfaction can ruin a game, go take a look at Tera.