really want to join a LS with people who dont ignore you or claim to help people out. I want to get the achievement "Once in a Life time" for the horn and get lv50 BLM, but thats already seeming impossible since almost everyone doesnt want to answer/help.

Had to spam for like 1min or 2 just to get some one to help with the 3rd BLM quest and im pretty sure that person only offered just to get me to shut the hell up. Came back to FFXIV sometime in aug or sept and only like 8 people ever spoke/helped me and out of those 8, 1 probably wanted me to shut the hell up, another i got lucky there was a 50 who came back and didnt do any of the grand company, out of all those 8 only 2 actually helped me, 1 helped with the 2nd BLM quest and the other help clear out the lv50 imperial mobs so i could complete my levequest.