Hahaha, i can see from several posts that people are oblivious to what occurs in other MMOs, and I must say I'm rather glad. It just reminds me again why I liked FFXI so much, it is unique and doesn't behave like other MMOs do at a community level. The fact is, the majority of FFXI/XIV players are really awesome and friendly people who make the game great more than the gameplay does. Thanks for the responses everyone, I can see now that there is no need to be concerned about what server I play on and that more or less answers my original question.

Thanks again everyone!